For most of my life, I felt like I was on the outside looking in. I grew up hopping between four different elementary schools in six years. This constant change left me socially disconnected. At the time, I didn’t know I had ADHD, which made focusing in middle school nearly impossible, and further isolated me. By the time I reached high school, it hit me: I didn’t have any real friends, and I felt completely alone.

That realization pushed me into a dark place. Depression crept in, and for the first time, I felt myself on the edge of something dangerous. I was ready to give up. But everything changed with one small act of kindness. Someone I barely knew invited me to a football game between our schools. It was such a simple invitation, but it pulled me back from that edge. That one gesture taught me the power of showing up for others and planted a seed within me: If I could ever be that act of kindness for someone else, I would.

Years later, I hit another major crossroads, my divorce. I had built a life I thought would last forever, only to watch it unravel. It felt like everything I’d shared with my partner was gone, and I was left struggling to find joy in anything. Therapy became a lifeline during this period. Not only did I get the tools to navigate the emotional weight of the divorce, but I was also finally diagnosed with ADHD. This diagnosis gave me clarity and helped me understand so much of what I’d struggled with throughout my life.

At the same time, I needed to rediscover who I was outside of that relationship. I started exploring new things I had never shared with my partner. That’s how I stumbled upon Twitch, where I began connecting with people who became some of my closest friends. What began as online friendships turned into something deeper when I took a trip to San Diego to meet them in person.

That weekend in San Diego changed everything. For the first time, I felt fully seen, accepted, and understood for who I really am. It gave me a sense of belonging I hadn’t realized I was missing—and it reignited my motivation.

The experiences I’ve been through—struggling with ADHD, navigating depression, surviving divorce, and rebuilding myself—have shaped my mission: to help others who are on the edge and offer them the same lifeline that once saved me. This desire to support others is the heart of Thryzen.

Thryzen isn’t just a business. It’s a reflection of my journey, built on the belief that no one should feel they have to navigate life’s challenges alone. I created Thryzen to offer men the support they need—not just through coaching, but by fostering real connection, accountability, and acceptance. I want to guide others toward seeing their own potential, recognizing their value, and finding joy, even in the small things.

Everyone’s path is unique, but through Thryzen, my goal is to help others see that they can build the life they want—step by step, moment by moment. My journey has shown me that growth is always possible, and sometimes, all it takes is one act of kindness to pull someone back from the edge. If Thryzen can be that for someone, I know I’ve fulfilled my mission.